Well�not as big as they used to be physically but my mental and emotional shoulders are definitely making up for that loss�lol. What the heck does this have to do with fitness, my life, my health�I say everything!
When you are in a position of internet personality, helping people from around the world, bravely putting yourself out there for all to see through images, videos, and opinions�well�the mental shoulders get well developed. As you know, I am a say it like it is person, trainer, consultant, coach, expert and any other name that gets tagged onto �Darla� the fitness gal. In this position, I MUST remain POSITIVE and let things roll off my back like a duck sometimes. The majority of the time, I am taken with appreciation, and thankfulness from so many for providing the hope they thought was never possible�touching to me as my purpose to help has been accomplished.
The other side of the coin can be exactly the opposite and filled with statements from people who do not take the time to know ME and jump into an attitude of sharing only judgments and negative comments. I can read through that into an unhappy soul who really wants to be healthy and the BEST, but not at a place in their life and unwilling to make that happen, and it is always easiest to lash out at someone than take responsibility for self. Really�I would like to reach out and give all those people a hug�NO�I really do�because they just need to have the encouragement and love to realize their fabulous potential.
I do not need to go into statement details but anyone who sits in my position as a fitness expert who has put themselves out there understands the lashings that can come in reference to a fit body, workouts, personal life, sharing success stories, making opinions and comments, and even recipes for crying out loud. I was taught never to judge a book by its cover and this is so important in life, but especially in what I do for a living as I see people of all shapes and sizes�and they are ALL FABULOUS!!! Could you imagine if I was a judgmental person�well�NO WAY�I could not do my job if I was running people into the ground for being too heavy, too skinny, low self esteem, body image issues, hairstyle, clothes, and the list can go on and on�how in the world would I MOTIVATE or help anyone with that mindset�I mean what in the heck is up with a judgmental mentality anyway. Who am I to judge�am I God�NO�I am Darla, the person who just so happens to come to YOU daily through different internet mediums to In Your Face MOTIVATE YOU.
I LOVE my Big Shoulders because they provide me with emotional strength and the ability to �not sweat the small stuff� in this life. They give me a very caring spirit and the understanding that negative statements usually come from people who are truly hurting, bitter from personal issues or life events not dealt with yet, and who really want and need help, but just do not know how to be vulnerable enough to let those feelings out in a healthy way to start the healing process. In my position of trainer, consultant and coach, I wear many hats, and during the times of hearing or receiving negative comments, I throw on the �coaching/therapist hat� and become the BEST listener in this moment, keying in on any details that I may be able to offer help, dig deep into who that person is, provide insight and validation, but at the same time, provide the guidance that says�HEY�TODAY is a new day and time to toss the old crap to the curb and begin a new healthy lifestyle�you get the picture.
The beautiful part about my life is that I choose to be POSITIVE in ALL circumstances, personally surround myself with people who will nourish my soul in a positive way, and lean on one of my favorite quotes that states �Life is 10% What Happens to You and 90% How You Respond to It.� Does that mean that I avoid all negative people, situations, and comments in my work�of course not�this is not realistic in my position...I am surrounded by people on a daily basis physically and online who are going through things that they are healing from or do not even realize they need help with, and all that is needed are some Big Shoulders to take on the task of helping and healing. Am I ever offended by such comments and sucked down to a point of OH MY�WHY DO I CONTINUE TO PUT MYSELF OUT THERE�.well�the answer is a Big Hell No. If anything, I feel challenged to help even more�I always have HOPE, always PERSEVERE, and do not believe in failure�in fact, in my opinion, failure is GOOD and a stepping stone to dusting off and becoming a better person. In this journey called life, I will continue to develop my Big Shoulders, continue to MOTIVATE�some may like me and some may not�that is OK and out of my control�but I will push forward with the cause of helping people adapt healthy lives�and for my Big Shoulders�ABSOLUTELY LOVE THEM! Stay Healthy~
IN YOUR FACE MOTIVATIONS
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Darla;)
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